Wednesday, March 21, 2018

A Better Ride



March 15, 2018

I am writing from the Gateway Himalaya Resort Hotel in Besishahar, Lamjung.  We got up about 6 AM, this time after a wonderful night’s sleep.  We departed for this area about 8.  This time we took one of the highways out of town that was not all broken up.  Even though we had some rough roads, it was nothing like yesterday’s horrible, rocky, jarring ride.  Nevertheless, they put me in the front seat till the road got better.  On this highway we stop once at a bus stop and again for lunch in the same places we always do on this road.  It makes for a more pleasant drive.  

Later I changed places with Jim.  After observing the driver’s reckless passing on curves, he couldn’t take it anymore and so complained about it.  The driver knows enough English, so he finally slowed down a bit, which kept Jim from having a heart attack.  Here in Nepal almost everyone passes on the curve and they drive rather recklessly.  When I was up front, I saw a few near-misses with vehicles suddenly before you… 



Our driver on the left, the chef on the right.  We always stop at this restaurant and resort on our drive to this area.  The chef came out to
talk to us when we had questions about the menu—how often does this happen??

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It was a long journey, but we finally arrived to our destination.  We had our little meeting with the water committee where we are beginning a water project with them.  They took us on a hike to see where the source was and also where they were going to add a very large collection tank.  This was a typical Nepali 15 minute hike—translation…at least one hour.  We are partnering with CHOICE for part of our agreement with the government.  It felt good to hike after the long drive and always feels good to get some exercise.  After my exhaustion yesterday, I was pleased to see that my legs worked just fine. 


On our hike up the road to see the water project points of interest, this cute girl came out to talk with me.  Her English was excellent.  I think she was wanting to thank us for bringing the water.  I think her father was one of the men on the water committee.

We finally departed for the hotel and arrived shortly thereafter at about 5:30 PM.  I recall staying here before.  I told the Wilkinson’s that they have no hot water and that it is typically colder here than most places we will be going.  Well, they said that they DO have hot water now and I was so excited; well, there is no hot water—the city water was off and their hotel generator is not good enough to power the hot water—darn!!  We had been sweating during the hike and I desperately wanted to shower!  But I’ve been fighting a sore throat and am not in the mood for a freezing shower—the water here must come from the mountain snow!  So, a spit bath it is for tonight! 
  
Our room has a view of the Himalayas if the clouds part so that you can see them.  It is often stormy here and clouds sit on the mountain.  Perhaps tomorrow morning.  We arrived just as it began to rain.  We quickly got our luggage, most of which was on the roof of the car, and got it up to our rooms.  Then it finally cut loose—all the threatening thunder we’d been hearing produced a driving rainstorm mixed with hail!  The restaurant is across the way outside and it was time for dinner.  Well, it was gushing and water was running down the parking lot that we had to cross.  I didn’t want to appear to be a chicken so I was the first stupid person to run across.  The water was roaring down the drive and soaked my shoes.  When I got to the restaurant I was soaked even though it was a short distance away—my windbreaker and hat, my shoes, and even my pants were wet from my thighs on down.  As soon as we took off our outer, wet clothes and sat down to order, the rain stopped!!  That’s why I said I was the first stupid one to run in that rain…


We hiked up to this water tank area, which apparently needs a new one.  They will be replacing it with a very large tank and bringing the water with taps to the homes in the area.  They at present have water lines going everywhere, taking turns at hooking into whatever water they can get.  This new systems will supply it to their homes, without having to hook up to some source whenever they need some water.  It is not the neediest area, but in Nepal we are running out of really needy people that get no water at all.  This area though has proven to be organized and support past projects.  They donate all the labor and a good deal of the money.  They will be able to sustain it, and that means a lot to us.  This area is called Gaunshahar.  [Jim asking questions to one of the committee members.]
Tomorrow we have to get to the hotel restaurant to eat our breakfast, about 7:30, and meet a group at 8 AM.  Darn, I really, really need a shower!!!

Right: one of the water sources.
It was interesting learning about Kiran’s arranged marriage and how he felt about it.  He said he knew his wife for 20 days before they were married.  He said that you do have some choice in the matter—you can meet and then one might say that they don’t agree to the marriage, but mostly they do as they trust their parents.  And, he says that as marriage is hard work sometimes, it is if you had dated and fell in love, you still need to work at marriage, and he is right of course.  In Nepal they don’t really date, although in modern times there are less arranged marriages.  When we talked with a young man that works with Rakesh, he said he met his wife while they worked with an NGO.  They fell in love and married last June.  Older families had lots of children, but now they usually have about 2.  It seems their parents usually had big families with many, many children.  Most modern couples plan on 2.



This is our tiny balcony—that white stuff you see is hail! 

This hotel has very hard beds, and Jim knows this so in his suitcase he had cut two pieces of foam pad to bring—it SO helped!  Besides not having hot water, there is one tiny rug just before you go into the bathroom—it is filthy.  The toilet seat is a little wobbly, and there are no other rugs on the floor.  The furniture is basic…but in truth, none of it matters as much as the lack of hot water!!  However, the three of us stayed one night for about $65.  They pay a huge tax here, over 20%, and that is about what Kiran got for us as a discount, about 20%.

Time for my cold spit bath…ugh!!  It just started raining again, hard, and blowing like crazy!  It is very loud out there!  And it knocked out the Internet connection—still no letters going out!  It rained all night.  How will we walk around?  We shall see…  It has been hard going from cold weather to hot weather.  It was hard to know what to bring in our one suitcase for this 4-day jaunt.

Tomorrow is another day…

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